BarCamp Bangkok 2008 – How to date a Japanese Girl

I would say that this topic is the most popular topic in the first day of BarCamp Bangkok 2008. Eventhough it is not about IT almost everyone join this session. Maybe it is because this topic was presented by "Real Japanese Girl" who later said someone ask her to do this. Sorry that I cannot remember her name, anyway here it is …

"How to date a Japanese Girl?"

• Facts
  • There are so many single Japanese Girl in Bangkok
  • There are so many Thai boy who has Japanese girlfriend
  • Most of  single Japanese Girl live here because they want to be here
  • Different from boys, most of Japanese Girl here are local employees, means they decided to stop worried about your looks and stop using it as an excuse.

• Once girl starts loving a man she will love everything about him
  • Even bad par such as beer belly, double chin

• The reason a girl leave a man
  • Girl don’t fall in love w/ you
  • Too much hustle she will run away
  • Stop chasing her if you hear those words
    • Ki-mo-i = feel sicky
    • Wo-za-i = annoying/use u-za-i for annoying man
  • Chase some girls not one because if you lose one you still have four left => back up system

• Things girl expect from man
• Kind => surface kindness or thing you don’t think it is important but girl do 
• Handsome
• Funny
• Smart
• Cute
• Other
• Example of kindness
  • Walk the street side, let your girl to walk the sidewalk 
  • Open and close the door when get on a car
  • Ask "dai-job-u" which can means "are you ok" on several occasion

• Some don’t
  • Do not try to be friend
  • Don’t’ get too close before you tell her you are going too
  • Do not ask your friend to talk to her first => it makes you look like a loser
  • Don’t call/sms/chat her like a stalker => she would say "Uzai"
  • Do not ask reason when she didn’t reply => it makes her feel “what are you” which is bad

• Where to find Japanese Girl?
• Thonglor
  • Café and bars from Thonglor to Ekkamai
  • Famous Bars pubs clubs
  • Some Japanese Girl loves going out
• Soi Rangnam
  • Many single Japanese Girls live here, they go to cafes/bars around this area

• People say Japanese Girl in Bangkok is not like Japanese Girl in Japan but she thinks there is no different